Child- parents relationship
"My daughter got 95/100 in math, 90/100 in English and 92/100 in science but she got only 85/100 in Hindi and she is not satisfied with her grades . She refused to take meal or talk to us sometimes."
This is the topic of conversation between two aunties at a shop . Yes obviously I was there; pretending like I am not interested in their conversation but I am listening to both very carefully.
And suddenly a question arise "what kind of conditioning is this!? What kind of environment or parenting we are serving to our generation? Where we feel are so hard to deal with the situation and we are not ready for any kind of failure . It is a big question on our ability to understand or accept a real Life challenge .
Good parenting is all about to teach life's all good or bad experiences , how to deal with unsatisfactory moment , importance of small basic things , life is all about to ups and downs, no matter what was your past or what is going on in your life Never ever give up .
Parents must should teach "importance of basic needs" . Today we all get our basic needs very easily so we take it very lightly. we must should realise that how smallest thing build our whole personality.
In a rat race of the world; we should not forget that we all are unique and beautiful we all have our own destiny. we no need to be perfect in all way .
This is the duty of the parents where they have to create a environment for their child where they learn from smallest to biggest life lessons . They should know life is not all about to grade and their parents are always there for them whenever they need them.
Create a environment where is no peer pressure , focus on learning rather than physical or psychological disability , low grade only motivated you to learn more , physical activity is important than Marks , mental health is also important as your physical health.
I know it's take time but let's start it❤
"My daughter got 95/100 in math, 90/100 in English and 92/100 in science but she got only 85/100 in Hindi and she is not satisfied with her grades . She refused to take meal or talk to us sometimes."
This is the topic of conversation between two aunties at a shop . Yes obviously I was there; pretending like I am not interested in their conversation but I am listening to both very carefully.
And suddenly a question arise "what kind of conditioning is this!? What kind of environment or parenting we are serving to our generation? Where we feel are so hard to deal with the situation and we are not ready for any kind of failure . It is a big question on our ability to understand or accept a real Life challenge .
Good parenting is all about to teach life's all good or bad experiences , how to deal with unsatisfactory moment , importance of small basic things , life is all about to ups and downs, no matter what was your past or what is going on in your life Never ever give up .
Parents must should teach "importance of basic needs" . Today we all get our basic needs very easily so we take it very lightly. we must should realise that how smallest thing build our whole personality.
In a rat race of the world; we should not forget that we all are unique and beautiful we all have our own destiny. we no need to be perfect in all way .
This is the duty of the parents where they have to create a environment for their child where they learn from smallest to biggest life lessons . They should know life is not all about to grade and their parents are always there for them whenever they need them.
Create a environment where is no peer pressure , focus on learning rather than physical or psychological disability , low grade only motivated you to learn more , physical activity is important than Marks , mental health is also important as your physical health.
I know it's take time but let's start it❤
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